Reciprocal IVF

What is Reciprocal IVF

(or shared motherhood/parenthood)

In traditional IVF, a person’s ovaries are stimulated with hormone medication to produce multiple eggs, which are extracted in a procedure called an ‘rgg retrieval’ or ‘egg collection’. In the lab, the eggs are then inserted or combined with sperm to fertilize them and create one or more embryos. After these embryos develop for three to five days, an ‘egg transfer’ is arranged. You can choose if one or two embryos are transferred back into the uterus of the person carrying the baby. Most UK clinics medically advise on one embryo being transferred; however it is your choice you can transfer two. They tend to prefer transferring two if you are over the age of forty, or have fertility issues. In Europe & Asia however, you can choose to transfer up to three embryos. After the ‘egg transfer’ it is again a two week wait until test day to take a pregnancy test, but many clinics say to test around day 10 onwards.

With Reciprocal IVF the eggs are retrieved from one person & will be cultivated in the lab & then transferred to another. This is a treatment whereby one is the ‘biological provider’ of the embryo & the other the ‘gestational carrier’. This means that both mothers or parents can be involved in the creation of the child.

Known or Unknown Donor

You can use a known donor, that can be someone you actually know, or someone you find through organizations like Pride AngelCoParents UK or through social media groups. In the UK the HFEA (Human Fertilization & Embryology Authority) strongly advise against home insemination, due to the lack of medical screening of donor for genetic impairments, CMV status’ & future legal issues regarding parental responsibility for the child. However, there are many of our community who have successfully had children this way & a wonderful experience. You cannot pay for a sperm donation ,however you can cover their expenses.

In the UK for Home AI you can use a known donor but cannot purchase sperm from a sperm bank & have it shipped to your home. This is however, legal in the USA & you can use a sperm bank & they can arrange shipment direct to your home address of the vials of sperm in the tank (which you can send back).

Medication

It is incredibly difficult to advise what medication you may both require for treatment; Clinics use different brands of medications & depending on your treatment plan will be specific to your needs. You need to be prepared that you will have to be administering medication in the form of tablets, pessaries (rectally or vaginally), patches, injections in the stomach & injections in the buttocks or thigh. If you have decided upon this route & want to know more about possible medications, you may be required to take please contact us.

Seek legal advice

Even if you are going through a professional clinic, some people if in a couple or co-parenting, or polyamorous family or using a known donor seek legal advice & get document drawn up to agree on how any child born from the treatment will be cared for & who has PR (parental responsibility for them). We would advise to hire a family solicitor or lawyer that support LGBT+ families or has experience in dealing with the creation of children through fertility.

Costs

Reciprocal IVF can cost anywhere between £6k-£9k & in some cases does not include the cost of sperm, & other tests. Because two people are undergoing treatment, it is double the tests, more medication & more complicated therefore higher in cost.

Success Rates

Because it is one of the most recent new techniques in fertility, there is less research regarding Reciprocal IVF success rates. However, a 2009 study of women around the age of 32, found that 60% of treatments resulted in a pregnancy. We would advise to look at a clinics IVF success rates to give you an indication of what their Reciprocal IVF success rates possibly may be.

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